Domestic Violence Knowledge Base
Domestic violence? I reported domestic violence against my husband. We fought and he hit my face, I can't hear properly now. However, I'm very suprise that they took him to jail. I bailed him out and he have to go to court on Jan 17. I receive the letter stating that it's him against the people of Illinois, and I am as the witness. I remember I do not wish to press charge against him and do not sign any paperwork. Police just ask me various info like dob, ph, etc. What should I do? do I need to appear in court? I mean, we did had argumeent and he did hit me, but I do not wish him go to jail and we want to work the marriage out for the sake of our son. What should i do? oh yah, this is in Illinois.
Domestic Violence? I'm writitng a paper on domestic violence, and I have a question. Would domestic violence just be considered to be spousal violence or is it everyone living in the house hold (child abuse)? Please help!
domestic violence? why do women who suffer from domestic violence stay in the relationship? I know they are scared but they will be even more scared getting beaten up everyday. It's abusing themselves staying!
How has domestic Violence affected your own personal life while growing up? The follwing questions are for a Highschool presentation to only a few students to bring awareness to students of domestic Violence; Tell me a broad explanation of your story that involves violence. How did you overcome this trauma? Has it affected your personal life? Has it affected you live a stable social life? What was your worst fear when you finaly came out to tell your story? What inspired you to break free from domestic violence? If you have not suffered from domestic violence what suggestions do you give to those who are victims? what is your opinion about domestic violence? Please please please answer my questions i will really appreciate it. Tell me your opinion about the overall topic.
How often do women get away with domestic violence these days? I know there are some women who are perpretrators of domestic violence and are very manipulative towards their husbands. A woman wouldn't go to jail. If it was vice versa, the heat is on. A woman hits a man, she gets no punishment. I know there are some abusive men who deserve a little more credit because they're the ones defending themselves. There are cops who arrest women and also deserves a little credit. In this day and time, how often do women get away with domestic violence and often manipulate their husbands?
What is the difference between Domestic Violence and Assault? Hi, my sister recently got beaten up by her boyfriend, and I am curious what the difference is between domestic violence and assault? Thanks again. I can't go after him. His daddy is a judge. Everyone please report the jackass "Dsghryj J"............Thank you!!
What are the domestic violence statistics around the world? i have got an assignment about domestic violence, i need to have relevent statistics, about domestic violence world wide. i cant seem to find and thing on the internet, if any one has any ideas or know any of the data, it would be greatly apprecitated. thanks
Do you think domestic violence is overlooked more if the family is rich? I know a family that lives in an affluent area. They have teenaged children. Both the mother and father abuse serious drugs (coke, pills), and the father abuses the wife ( to the point of ER trips for broken bones); he possibly beats the kids. The authorities have been informed, but the kids have never been removed, and he only went to jail -- for a few hours -- once. Do you think domestic violence is overlooked more if the family is rich?
Why is domestic violence against men a non issue? One way of reducing the amount of domestic violence against women would be to address the issue of domestic violence against men . The police refuse to take it seriously so men don't report it . There are many forms of domestic abuse other then physical . If you've ever lived with an abusive woman you will know .
When Domestic Violence is a Pattern, are questions of Justification Relevant at all? (inspired by a couple of questions about if or when hitting is justified) Is it the case that most Domestic Violence happens over a sustained period, rather than being a one time thing? If this is so, then are questions of "when it's okay to hit" really relevant at all to most real life situations? Are the better question for most people - "when is it appropriate to leave an abusive situation?" and "How much should anyone be prepared to tolerate?" What do you think?
Help with naming a spring fundraiser for domestic violence? My agency, The Domestic Violence Center of Chester County is having a fundraising event in the Spring, and we need some help coming up with a great name! It is a bit less-than-formal event but not too casual and it will take place at a nice old house called Brandywine Manor. Any suggestions? No ignorant comments please!
How do I start a foundation for domestic violence? I am interested in starting a foundation that brings awareness to domestic violence the problem is I have no clue where to start. Has anyone started a foundation that can give me some advice on how to start
Domestic Violence: How easy is it to get an apprehended violence court order taken out against my partner? I am giving serious thought to separating from my partner of 12 years and get custody of my children since we have been arguing and fighting a lot lately, particularly over money matters and disciplining the children. The way Domestic Violence Crisis Service, Legal Aid Office and Womens Legal Assistance explained it to me makes it seem easy but is it? I thought I'd seek out comments from others who have been through the court process and find out what their experience was like.
How do I counteract the input of a domestic violence advocate? My wifes counselor referred her to a domestic violence advocate (we've had arguments etc but Ive never hurt her or laid a finger on her). The DV advocate has her head filled with so much garbage that my wife wont even look at me or speak to me. I want to do everything I can to save our marriage; what can I do if she wont speak to me?? Help!
How does a victim drop domestic violence charges in NV? My ex is in jail for battery by strangulation and domestic violence. Someone called the cops and though I didn't want to press charges, he's in there anyways. I just want to know how to drop the charges and if I even can.
How can men help prevent domestic violence? I'm doing a report on a man's role in preventing domestic violence could be. Other than the obvious not beating his wife, what are other ways men can do to take a stand against domestic violence?
What can a person do w domestic violence not be deported? Thanks for the answers it really helped. So now my question is, is there any chance that the judge will grant him to stay here in the U.S and not get deported? Get a good lawyer or marry him? Btw, hes domestic violence was w his previous gf from two years ago. I convinced him to turn himself in.
What are you religious views on domestic violence? I was just reading about the Phil Hoffman situation with his wife. It led me to believe how women can get away with DV. If a man reports it, he gets arrested or is called a sissy. But they get life if they off their husbands. What do you think of domestic violence? Has anyone ever been a victim of DV or known anyone who has? Do you know anyone who died from DV?
What type of people do Domestic Violence? Please answer the following questions. How did he or she (assailants of Domestic Violence) conduct to people who are incompatible to them at school or his workplace? Has he or she ever become assailants of bullying or a stalker? Please tell his family environment. Please tell his personality objectively. I want to know concrete examples when you use abstract expressions such as "serious", "cheerful", "kind" and so on. There are no people who are familiar with Domestic Violence in my acquaintance. I want to know your experience about Domestic Violence.
How often do women get away with domestic violence? From what I've read, if a woman physically assaults her husband, he calls the cops, but he gets arrested for nothing. Cops are sexists! In these days, how often do women get away with domestic violence? Whats the percentage?
What happens when someone is found not guilty of common assault / domestic violence? Just wondered on this - someone close to me has just lost their case in a magistrates court - the person was found not guilty of common assault (total miscarriage of justice!!!) in a domestic violence incident as apparently there was "reasonable doubt". Seems impossible that this was the outcome but her representation on the day was appalling. She is now worried he could sue for defamation of character or take other action against her. What are the options for someone if they've been found not guilty? Does the charge still stay on their record? Any help will be greatly appreciated as she has now lost all faith in the system.
What are the causes for domestic violence? Is there any clear cut definition of what can be considered as abuse be it any form? Also does a man have the same rights to report abuse or domestic violence as a woman??? Edit:I know i might sound a bit naive but i'am from india where under the same laws men have no right to report abuse because the constituion of india does not recognize that indian men can be abused.
What are some ways to raise awareness and take action for domestic violence against women? For my geography project my group and I are to raise awareness and take action for our topic. Our topic is domestic violence and we are looking for ways to raise awareness in our community (Toronto). There are 3 people in our group. Can you please help us think of ways to raise awareness. We don't want to do posters or brochures and hand them out, we want to do something creative. But how can we raise awareness about that?
What do YOU define as domestic violence? For many months there have been many questions about that men are also victims of domestic violence. I agree, of course they also can be victims. But my question is what do YOU define as domestic violence, as I consider there is a big difference between real abuse or just relationship quarrels. Nagging for me, is not abuse, just a sign that someone is very unhappy. I mention nagging, as many times it has been mentioned as abuse. Please share your thoughts on this.
How do I contact Rihanna to speak at a charity benefit for Domestic Violence? I am trying to host a charity benefit for Domestic Violence with The Break The Cycle Organization. It would be the icing on the cake if I could get Rihanna to come and speak about her experiences. How can I contact her? the organization is called Break The Cycle. i want her to speak about her experience and why she got back together with him.
Can a victim of a family domestic violence drop charges in Texas? Is anyone aware of the laws? The charge that was brought was a class A misdemeanor for family domestic violence. The circumstances of the situation have altered, and the victim would like to know if they have the right not to pursue this charge further.Please only serious answers. Thank you. For the gentelman who responed yes, can you please elaborate a little more?
What do you think is the reason for the recent 50% drop in domestic violence cases? Personally, I see it as a good thing that domestic violence has fallen by half, but it has been falling for the last 20-years. The most significant change from the improved training of police officers, as a result of the Violence Against Women Act, that has driven down the rates, is the major increase in the arrest of women for domestic violence. Check arrest reports, and especially talk to any female police officer, and you will find that almost 40% of DV arrests are women, with the majority by female officers. That, in and of itself, is significant, in that female officers make up only 13% of police forces. I hope they keep up the good work and that the Associations for Female Police Officers & Women in Law Enforcement will push to mandate female officers be at least on of the responding officers on all domestic disturbance calls. Check any study on domestic violence, but look at the data charts instead of just reading the summary and you find that men are the victims in 39% of the cases. The story is reprinted from the Washington Post. As for the rest, search under DV against men. I've worked with the male victims for 18 years. http://www.abs-comptech.com/domestic.html A good study is Murder in Families by the US Justice Dept. What's the most common factor found in women you batter men? They account for 55% of fatal child abuse, on their own childrem, compared to that committed by anyone. Fathers are 8%, stepmothers/girlfriends are 9% & stepfathers/boyfriends are 10%. Numbers don't change when custody arrangements are taken into account. To learn how men can be victims, rent the movie MEN DON'T TELL. Also, talk to any female police officer. The most common form of battery against men is with a frying pan while he is watching TV or sleeping. Wxamples of it are seen all the time in comedies and in comic strips. Yes, I was a victim once, of a thrown pot of coffee, but my wife had developed Bipolar disease. I sent her away 2 years ago and treatment has helped her. The only reason I don't bring her back now is that she is being sued for injuries she caused someone else, and if I bring her back, they can add my income to the lawsuit, taking everything I own. We have to wait until it is settled. Of interest, I just took home a young woman from the KCKS jail. She was arrested on a DV involving 2 broken wine bottles. Neither had been drinking. The argument was over her being 2 hours late getting home from a movie with friends. She didn't call to say she was running late. There is a baby and the arresting officer was female. I offered to help them get into counseling.
If a mother charges her daughter with domestic violence, does the mother automatically win? This is between a mother and daughter, sad case in our family. The mother scratches the daughter with her nails (out of anger), so the daughter is bleeding and complains it hurts. The mother says she's glad about it and not apologizing. This irritates the daughter, so she runs up to her mother and pushes her on the floor. The mother is shocked her daughter would push her and calls 911. If she decides to press charges, will she automatically win, acusing her daughter of domestic violence?
What Are the Causes of Domestic Violence? I have never had my partners who committed domestic violence. My parents also have never had violence. I read some articles and saw the shocking ad of anti-DV by Keira Knightley right now. I just felt that men's mental disease causes domestic violence, but I understand the reality is much more complicated. So, what actually does this cruelty happen today?
where do you find a job after getting a domestic violence charge? My son has just received a domestic violence charge. He is finding it extremely difficult to find employment. He has just 1.5 years to funish his (IT) degree....Information Tech/CIS. Unfortunately, he thinks it would be a waste to complete his degree, as it appears this misdemenor has basically ruined his life. Respectfully request any advice or feedback.
Feminists (and others), could you explain your understanding of the domestic violence problem? I would like to see what everyone considers the truth about the current domestic violence problem (particularly in the United States) to be. In other words, do you believe that it is overwhelming a problem caused by males that can only be stopped by males, do you think men and women are equally violent, or do you have another take on the issue? Please cite a source if you use statistics. I'll post my take on it after I get a few replies. Actually, I reported you, because you suggested that I "sniffed men's farts" and that "your sister could beat me up-" therefore, you were not contributing anything. I don't hate women- I want to see what feminists think about this issue. First off, Allegra, I've already read the advocacy garbage AND the actual DOJ/CDC statistics from the report. That little group is, like usual, taking things out of context. Secondly, that "85%" statistic refers to a source "5" which WASN'T EVEN RECORDED on the citations at the bottom. Very shoddy, if you ask me. Hey, I NEVER said that the DOJ statistics were garbage, I said the advocacy group was. The way they portrayed the statistics was shoddy and they didn't even cite one of the sources they supposedly had. That is AWFUL practice and even a high school student wouldn't make that mistake. I'll add my input on the problem now. A source: http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm It's an interesting read- it's basically a compendium of (often large) studies that concern violence in males and females. From what I've read, in at least the younger crowd of people (college age and below), women tend to initiate more violence than men, sometimes at a level twice that of males when "mutual initiation" is excluded. The main reason appears to be attention, i.e., "He wasn't listening to me." I, unlike some, will put it in context, however, and recognize that males do more serious damage than females do for reasons of strength, while female violence is more often slapping/pushing, although they are more likely to use objects. The updated death rates for 2004 are 1,159 women and 385 men, by the way, meaning that the ratio is almost exactly 75% male to 25% female. Conclusion- males still perpetrate the majority of physical violence for the time being, but this may change. The two radical feminist posters seem to have a severe problem with reading questions. The question is, could you EXPLAIN your understanding of the problem. If you did not agree with one of the models I posted, you are MORE than welcome to post your own. Anecdotes, wonderful as they are for emotional argument, will NOT explain the severity, incidence, or prevalence of domestic violence. Get that, "militant poster/advocacy group poster?" (Beating around the bush like that is getting on my nerves.) WOW, "Militant Poster..." "Is it because guns are so easy to obtain in the USA?" And exactly WHAT do you have to say about Switzerland, a country where almost EVERYONE owns a gun? What explains their low crime rate? "Experts" tend to be heathen fools who don't know what they're talking about. It will be MY generation, not YOURS, that will see an end to this problem. Do you know WHY that gun murder problem occurred? Because the university didn't follow procedures and issue a lockdown when it should have. If it had FOLLOWED THE PROCEDURES, many of those students would be alive. Think before you type, because you can't very well take back sheer idiocy on the Internet. (Or Internets, if you're Bush.)
How has domestic Violence affected your own personal life while growing up? Tell me a broad explanation of your story that involves violence. How did you overcome this trauma? Has it affected your personal life? Has it affected you live a stable social life? What was your worst fear when you finaly came out to tell your story? What inspired you to break free from domestic violence? If you have not suffered from domestic violence what suggestions do you give to those who are victims?
I need a building or house to be donated to start my nonprofit domestic violence shelter? I have started the paperwork to incorporated my business (Steps Of Empowerment). It is a nonprofit domestic violence shelter that will assist people in having an alternative to living in domestic violence situations. I am in need of any and all asistance in making this happen. I small building or or home that can be converted would be a blessing. As a teenager I was a victim of domestic violence. I am now a survivor and advocate for fighting back. I am now happily married (20 yrs. this Decemeber) I know what it feels like to think you have no choice and nowhere to turn. I lived it and survived it. I would like to give others the courage and strength to live better lives. My organization's name says it all; STEPS OF EMPOWERMENT. Please, help me to make a difference in so many lives that are affected by domestic violence.
Should it be mandatory that female police officers be a corespondent to any domestic violence calls? Females officers are more likely to see through any false allegations made by women. In 1998, in Lawrence (KS), so many women were arrested for domestic violence and/or making false allegations, the Women's Shelters demanded the female officers get retraining. They believed the officers were not properly trained on how to recognize female victims of domestic violence and that women don't batter, they are simply defending themselves.
How has domestic Violence affected your own personal life while growing up? Tell me a broad explanation of your story that involves violence. How did you overcome this trauma? Has it affected your personal life? Has it affected you live a stable social life? What was your worst fear when you finaly came out to tell your story? What inspired you to break free from domestic violence? If you have not suffered from domestic violence what suggestions do you give to those who are victims?
Can women be charged with domestic violence nowadays? I'm so sick of seeing men being charged for domestic battery. Some are even falsely accused by their wives. It's normal for a woman to hit a man and not be charged. It's normal for a woman to make false accusations on abuse. But they can get life if they exterminate their husbands. Can women be charged with domestic violence nowadays? Will it ever change for more women to face charges on DV?
I need to write a research method paper on domestic violence, can you help guide me ? I failed this class previously due to researching a bad topic. I chose domestic violence and reasons women stay with an abusive partner. My professor said I need to narrow the topic, define my independent and dependent variable and to use journal articles. I used EBSCO for articles but I am finding very limited info, how can I narroe my topic so that I can list variables (independent and dependent) suggestions?
Is it easier to get divorced when domestic violence is involved? A friend of mine is trying to get a divorce from her husband. He has abused her several times and one of his most recent abuses have gotten him convicted of aggravated domestic violence. They have a child together and he says that he is going to make the divorce as hard on her as possible. It's my understanding that when on member of the marriage says that they want to try to work it out sometimes judges may say that they have to stay married an additional 6 months, but is this possible in this situation? She lives in Michigan She did get him arrested and he has been convicted of the domestic violence so it is documented Great answer Bunny/Grace
Can women be charged with domestic violence nowadays? I'm so sick of seeing men being charged for domestic battery. Some are even falsely accused by their wives. It's normal for a woman to hit a man and not be charged. It's normal for a woman to make false accusations on abuse. But they can get life if they exterminate their husbands. Can women be charged with domestic violence nowadays? Will it ever change for more women to face charges on DV?
Please tell me where i can find domestic violence counceling or anger managment in central ny? I live in central ny and i have a problem. but i recognize that i need help because my family means everything to me and i am nothing without them. i am looking for domestic violence counceling or anger managment classes but the only classes i can find are for domestic violence education classes but i already am educated on what this can do to a family. i want help, i need help please someone give me some suggestions.
How long will someone go away for domestic violence? If someone was on prohabation for possession of drugs and then the cops were called on him for domestic violence and when the cops arrived there was physical evidence on the female that she was harmed by this man, what is the average amount of time? I live in PA if you need to know that info. Thanks!!!!
Where can I find legal transactions to domestic violence? I am doing a research paper on domestic violence and I need a site that will give me all the legal stuff like what will be the punishment for this or that kind of domestic violence. please and thank you :) This is the U.S.A. only. I understand that the intensity of the violence will determine the punishment. Any info is great tho.
How do you beat a domestic violence charge? If somebody filed a claim of domestic violence but it was a lie and they want to get the other person out of trouble how do they do it. The other person has a record and the state picked up the charges.
Has anyone ever been a victim of domestic violence? I have a female friend and she's in this situation. Has anyone ever been a victim of domestic violence? Was it emotional, physical, etc? What did your spouse do to you? What did you do to end the violence? Do you know anyone who was a victim and it led to death or suicide? Do you know anyone who stayed in a abusive relationship?
Has any teens or adults ever been a victim of domestic violence? I have a female friend and she's in this situation. Has anyone ever been a victim of domestic violence? Was it emotional, physical, etc? What did you do to end the violence? Do you know anyone who was a victim and it led to death or suicide? Do you know anyone who stayed in a abusive relationship?
How much time will I get for a simple domestic violence charge in Texas? Charged with a bogus domestic violence charge while in a hotly contested divorce. Was simply a pushing/yelling match. No injuries for either of us. Also charged with interference with an emergency phone call. This would be a first ever offense with a clean criminal record on my part. What would a typical sentence be for me???
What was the news regarding Suicide and domestic violence victims today? On the radio today there was something about the law being changed regarding domestic violence victims committing suicide. That the perpetrators could be held responsible? My colleague talked through the entire report and I cant find it on any news forum. Did any one catch it? Just answered my own question! http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/6060896.stm Think its great news though... Do you agree with it?
Does a dismissed claim of domestic violence show up in a backround check? First I have to say, because I feel so vilainized by this, I did not, would not, will not, ever in my life, physically abuse a woman. I find the act of abusing a woman, or even violence (unless in self defense) appalling and inexcusable, which is why I am devastated by this claim. Long story short, my ex filed a frivolous domestic violence claim against me. She wanted an injunction against me in place for a year going into the hearing and when I showed up with witnesses she immediately decided to dismiss it. No charges or police involvment, no arrest, no evidence, just her claim in which she doesn't even state any violence, because there was none. Now this hearing for domestic violence is on my public records. I'm devestated by this, my character is very important to me and I have no criminal record whatsoever. I can prove she lied and seriously exagerated, etc. And show a motive for her actions. I'm now suing to prove my side. If I win, can this be removed from my records? Now that I am suing her she tells a friend about how high her legal expenses are (she hired an attorney to file the domestic violence claim) , say's "she doesn't know how things got to this" and "she just wants to be my freind". I really don't even know what to say to that. Thanks carrie ann, btw technically there were no charges, just what my lawyer says amounts to a "claim" by her. Charges would only have been if I was arrested. She basically just went to court and filed a written statement... ie: claim.
What do I do with a friend that I know is guilty of domestic violence? I have a friend that is currently incarcerated for Assault 4, Which in Washington State is what domestic violence is under. I'm pretty sure he did it. Met some witnesses and; unfortunately with his girlfriend, he fits the abusive personality to a tee. Manipulative, arrogant, all of that. However; he claims to be innocent and is pleading innocent and is trying to convince me of this. This personally pisses me off for the simple reaon of I was falsely charged with a slightly more serious charge in Texas (Assault to a family member with attempt to do bodily harm) and could not defend myself because I had little money. I am not one to abandon a friend and the ethics I fall under (Christian) require me to be there for him while he is incarcerated. However; he is seriously pissing me off. Suggestions? I already want to grab his neck and shake really hard; but, it's not right so I won't.
Does anyone know of anyone who is a nurse and has a domestic violence charge on their record? My wife has a domestic violence charge on her record and can not get it removed. She wants to be a nurse and in the state of ohio she is not allowed. Does anyone know of anyone who is a nurse and has a domestic violence charge on their record, if so what state do they practice in? If you could give the place of employment, that would be great, no persons names though of course. Thank you for your time.
How to change SSN because of domestic violence? Has anyone done this? I've heard you can change your SSN if you need to because of domestic violence. What sort of evidence or documentation do you have to present? How is this kind of application received? Is it easy? Are the workers in the SSN office used to this request? Any help really appreciated...Thanks in advance
Do people who commit domestic violence get the punishment they deserve? I have to do a research paper on domestic violence and am trying to get some other views. Do people who commit domestic violence get the punishment they deserve or is it just a slap on the wrist? what do you do when anger management classes dont work. what about restraining orders that have been violated. Ok Me, what about if the person has already been charged once before and does it again. No matter how severe the crime. Flafuncops- yes there are things that can be put in place to keep the perp from attacking the victim again(restaining orders) but that is just a piece of paper. does it hold much weight? Why is it that a person has to be a repeat offender to get a severe punishment? You can also post to my blog: 360.yahoo.com/tinisha213
What are some useful publications about the cases of domestic Violence? Ok, so I am collecting data for my debate team case and I was just wondering what were the fameous cases when (for example) the husband abused the wife for years and and when she shot him out of depare, the sentanced her of 20 something years... Any other resources about domestic violence and use of lethal force in order to stop it...will be ver welcomed Thanks!
Are both parties in a domestic violence dispute arrested? I know of a couple who were arrested and put in jail in Georgia for domestic violence and as it turns out their two son's were put in foster care and then adopted out. Is it as cut and dry as it sounds or would there be other contributing factors for the children to have been adopted out?
Need fair booth ideas for a domestic violence shelter? We are a domestic violence shelter and we are going to have a booth at the local county fair. The theme of the fair this year is "A Homegrown Experience". We need some ideas to incorporate this theme with domestic violence and our shelter.
How common is domestic violence among men? I am writing a report on domestic violence and am focusing on abused males. What I am looking for are personal testimonies (confidential, of course- a first name is appreciated). Statistics and reasons why you would/would not come forward are also welcome.
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