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What are the types of security and stability in a marriage?

I am writing a college paper on why people should may for love not security. I already used the idea that people marry those financially secure but it doesnt always promise emotional happiness and can lead to cheating. Do you guys know any other type of security? I was thinking maybe from abuse but I don't know how to word that. Thanks!!!

Public Comments

1. Security camera's, we have them on our property and we're safe :P
2. marrying someone that you are comfortable with or that you have been comfortable with in the past could seem like a good thing but eventually you may come to realize it was a mistake because you were only meant to be friends.from abuse that wouldn't really be a good reason because you never know what you are getting into with some people.
3. some people marry b/c they just settled and just don't want to end up alone...maybe this is for security...hope this helps w/ your paper
4. Love and compromise is the foundation that gives stability to a marriage...not material security. If so, then rich people would never divorce. When I got married, I had a little, but my husband was flat broke. However we were both hard workers and worked side by side to provide for ourselves. It is our love and dedication to each other and our relationship that helped us through our economical difficulties. Relationships are a series of compromises. Respect for each other and each others' space and differences. We came from 2 completely different backgrounds, but we approach it like the: Our differences should enrich us, not divide us. We celebrated our differences, not tear it apart. Again, it has to do with our devotion to each other and our respect for each other that kept our relationship secure. The stability is our undying love for each other. I feel secure in knowing that he care for me, respect me enough to never cheat on me or lie to me. I give to him the same because I love him and would never hurt him.
5. they go hand in hand.... security and stability... emotional, financial, physical, spiritual..... all of them are tied together.... if one is missing, well, the rest do no good..... trust, faith, support (of all kinds), are all interwoven into the fabric of just what marriage is, not what it is about, but what it IS !!!! Love is a security of all things combined.... again, if just ONE ingredient is missing, it will NOT work.... go in peace.. God bless
6. A lot of people marry just to be out of the dating scene, I guess you could say just for emotional stability? That is also the reason why a lot of people stay in a marriage, long after the honeymoon. You develop a companionship with one another...kind of get settled in to the way things are, and a lot of people who feel this stage of their relationship approaching start to feel that there's "just no spark." Most people don't realize that the honeymoon phase doesn't last forever, and that when it does end they think that their marriage is failing, when really its just normal. If you've been married for a while your sex life is not going to be the same as it was at the beginning of the relationship, but probably because you know that sex is always available, and also, monogomy is a part of our biology. Women are monogamous because we only carry one precious egg a month, and we have to be picky about whom we choose as a mate. Men benefit from monogamy to ensure the successful continuation of their lineage...since offspring fare better with two parents to care for them.